The Act of Love

 

The art of creating love is apparently one of the most beautiful and pleasurable acts someone can execute. It gives unbelievable pleasure and is a delightful feeling of closeness between two persons. We have all seen the movies that set the bar for how we should act. You all know the setting:  the man gently comforts his partner down while watching her fondly with passion in the eyes of both. He then assuredly and calmly guides her amid the processes. He is a buoyant lover, someone whom she can really submit herself to. It is almost like the perfect scenario, with the small drops of sweat, mood of good lightning and mellow music.  Yes, you would almost be tricked into believing that is how sex Berlin is every single time with every different individual.The truth, as a matter of fact, is far different. Quite often is the case that it is a sweaty race to the finishing line in a not so enigmatic and vibrant room while the only music being created is coming from random, embarrassing bodily sounds combined with the odd groan here and there. Unluckily, if you never had a sexual encounter with anyone or any experience to rely on you can easily be tricked into imagining that you need to do better than this movie, dream like image.  Combined with a perception that there is more burden on men to carry out the act like substandard porn stars, it can make the whole idea of sex hardly seem worth it. Even if you do accomplish to get all of the postures and mood correctly arranged, probabilities are that the amount of pressure you have put yourself in will destroy your capability to rise to the occasion and deliver. A classic way to connect up with your body is by concentrating on your breathing. Be mindful of the breaths that you are inhaling and exhaling. By concentrating on your breath, you are relinking with a very simple part of your body’s operational system and it will bring you back to your physical self. It is also a good way to push away those diverting thoughts. Allow yourself to completely savor sex and the pleasures that come with it. That means you must let go of guiltiness, self-consciousness, feelings and personal anxieties. Furthermore, learn to love yourself and all your imperfections. From there, tap into your sensuality by pondering about what makes your body feel worthy. What do you experience when your partner touches your body? How does your body react to your partner? Maybe that extra weight feels more erotic and fun to them.

 

 

Bond, Communicate and Faith in Your Partner

 

To feel safe and protected in your relationship, you will have to communicate and share about how you feel with your partner. Going hand in hand with this is feeling that develops an understanding between you and your partner. From here you can realize, accept and communicate more straightforwardly.If you want anything, you can simply ask for it. Simply never forget to let go of complaints. If you find yourself drifting away or feeling detached, it is completely normal to let your partner know! As a matter of fact, it is suggested to let them know that you are having trouble tuning in and ask them for assistance and have patience as you recouple. Maybe you need them to handle you in a certain manner or you just need to share a passionate kiss for a while. Your disconnection is not a mirror image of their lovemaking or the strength of your bond with them but just an indication of being human in a frantic world. Tensing all of your muscles links you with your entire body and sets up the platform for relaxation. Once you have tensed all of your muscles up, relax them! By tensing all of your muscles you are physically setting up a wonderful platform for relaxation. It makes it way at ease than just forcing your brain to relax your body. In partnered sex we are often super attentive towards our genitals, because that is where the key part of the show is. However, sex includes all of your body and sometimes it is essential to pay attention to different parts as well. It is not about copping a feel. Foreplay starts out of the bedroom; in fact, it is about mates connecting during the course of the day. And it does not have to be blatantly sexual or sexual at all. It can even be as ordinary as helping with the laundry. Basically anything to be more connected. And don’t forget that afterplay is equally vital. Rather than skipping up after lovemaking, stay physically, mentally and emotionally connected. Another common blunder we make is being orgasm-centric. When we focus only on the end product, it is so easy to get caught up in our heads. We are also depriving ourselves of all the other breathtaking physical and emotional sensations that come along with a passionate sexual encounter. So pay attention to the flight, instead of just the journey’s end. Get pleasure out of touching, kissing, licking-literally anything you can think of. You will find that once you are rewired with the process, the orgasm will be something not too far away. If you need to take a few minutes to breath or exchange a dialogue with your partner, feel free to do so! Some people worry about spoiling the mood but the fact of the matter is that your mood is already spoiled if your body is not tuned properly. A good partner will understand your need to connect up so if the person you are with does not understand and if they don’t want you to be ever-present and relishing what is going on, then we advise you to never see them again.